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jennifer beth.
vegan.
feminist.
nursing student graduate nurse!
new hampshire.

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i promise to TRY TO not be affected by the negative appeals of the media.

this is a hard pledge!  i’ve been down on myself a lot lately, and today decided i would actually DO something about it.  SO, i’m going to be more conscious about the sort of media i consume, and i am going to try and accept my body just the way it is.  working on no more self hate.

i promise to TRY TO not be affected by the negative appeals of the media.

this is a hard pledge! i’ve been down on myself a lot lately, and today decided i would actually DO something about it. SO, i’m going to be more conscious about the sort of media i consume, and i am going to try and accept my body just the way it is. working on no more self hate.

(via dontneedtoshavetobebeautiful)

stfuhypocrisy:

alllllll-of-the-spectacular:

introspectivestardust:

As long as women’s natural body hair is called disgusting and inappropriate while men’s isn’t, I am a feminist.

As long as I can’t watch an episode of a popular sitcom without having to sit through multiple sexist comments or “jokes”, I am a feminist.

As long as women have to face the rational fear of being sexually assaulted every time they walk home past dark while men don’t, I am a feminist.

As long as misogyny exists in any country in this world, I am a feminist.

As long as women are being raped, then stoned to death or forced to marry their rapist, I am a feminist.

As long as companies promote men to manager when there are women who are equally as or better qualified, because they find that men look more authoritative, I am a feminist.

As long as women (her choice of clothes, her friendly nature, her weakness, her choice to drink alcohol) get blamed when men rape them, I am a feminist.

As long women’s opinions on online social networks are dismissed with phrases like “tits or gtfo”, “get back to the kitchen”, “are you pms’ing?”, I am a feminist.

As long as dressing like a woman is degrading for men and as long as men are insulted with phrases like “you throw like a woman”, clearly implying that being like a woman is shameful, I am a feminist.

As long as both men are women are expected to work, but taking care of children and the household are still largely considered a woman’s job, I am a feminist.

As long as boys and girls are treated differently, expected to act differently, and surrounded by different toys and colours from the day they are born, I am a feminist.

As long as topless women aren’t allowed in public unless they’re on the cover of a men’s magazine, I am a feminist.

As long as women who have sex frequently are generally told they are “sluts”, “lacking self-respect” and “lacking morals” by both men and women, while men who frequently have sex are “just being men” and it’s “natural for them”, I am a feminist.

As long as there are places where women have to pay more for health insurance than men, I am a feminist.

As long as men experience situations with equal gender representation as female-dominated, and don’t consider a group discussion equal unless there are significantly more men than women participants (as has been proven), I am a feminist.

As long as there are men who think it’s their wife or girlfriend’s duty to have sex with them whenever they want, I am a feminist.

As long as the word feminism (“the movement aimed at equalrights for women”) has a negative connotation, I am a feminist.

As long as misogynistic people exist, I am a feminist.

(via lipstick-feminists)

It is the height of irony that women are valued for our looks, encouraged to make ourselves beautiful and ornamental and are then derided as shallow and vain for doing so.
Greta Christina (via feminishblog)

(via dailymurf)

Grammy producers confirmed that Chris Brown will be performing on Sunday’s show.

“We’re glad to have him back,” said executive producer Ken Ehrlich. “I think people deserve a second chance, you know. If you’ll note, he has not been on the Grammys for the past few years and it may have taken us a while to kind of get over the fact that we were the victim of what happened.”

Read that quote again. Think hard about what is being said. Here is what this quote says to any woman who’s ever been abused:

  • By blacklisting Chris Brown from the Grammys for a “few” years (actually, a grand total of TWO Grammy Awards), the Grammys have gone above and beyond expectations for the social exile of an adult man who hit his girlfriend so hard she went to the hospital, and honestly it was really, really hard for them to show even that much support for victims of domestic violence worldwide.
  • It was rather thoughtless of Rihanna to go and get herself hit in the face by her boyfriend, because it’s put such a burden on the Grammys. Maybe if she hadn’t made such a big fuss out of it, things could have been easier for everyone.
  • The Grammys think that they were the victim of Chris Brown hitting Rihanna in the face.
  • The Grammys. Think. That they. Were the victim. Of Chris Brown. Hitting. Rihanna. In the face.
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first off, let me preface this by saying that i am overweight. i am about 30-40lbs heavier than my “normal” weight. many factors have contributed to this, including but not limited to: hypothyroidism, stress eating from nursing school, inactivity/not exercising, eating unhealthy food (yes, french fries are vegan), drinking more (i heart beer; see also aforementioned stress from nursing school) and being on these crazy steroids for my rheumatological disorder. for some reason, my body has decided to store the majority of these extra pounds in my abdominal/belly region.

here’s what pisses me off: people that assume i’m pregnant/ask me when i’m due/reach out to touch my belly, etc etc etc. this happens quite frequently. in fact, at work the other day, a colleague congratulated me on what i thought was my first day back to work after being out sick for a month, but she actually thought i was pregnant and wanted to know if i was having a boy or a girl.

isn’t there some unwritten etiquette rule that one does not ask a woman if she is pregnant/make reference to her being pregnant unless 1) the woman mentions that she is pregnant, or 2) she is actually birthing a baby right at that moment right in front of you?

here’s what pisses me off even more: people who think that i don’t know my own body.
“are you SUUUUUUUUURE you’re not pregnant?!??”
“yes, i’m certain.”
“i don’t know, are you SURE-sure? you’re totally pregnant.” fuck off. I KNOW MY BODY. I AM NOT PREGNANT. FULL STOP.

UGH, people. i realize i am overweight. i am trying to not totally hate my body and how i look, which is really hard at times seeing how i live in a culture that values skinny beautiful people above anything else and if you’re not skinny and perfect, you’re worthless.

i’m just really grumpy tonight. i feel like i’m in the prodromal stages of a cold, i have a headache that acetaminophen is doing doodily for and i can’t take any NSAIDs because i’m still on the stupid steroid. speaking of the prednisone, i’m weaning off of it per MD orders and i’m down to 10mg a day, which is too low a dose to be effective at keeping my joint pain at bay, and i’m hurting. i just have to suck it up and deal with the pain, because there’s nothing else i can do, there are no meds i can take that will make it go away other than prednisone and/or vicodin, both of which i do not want to take.

okay, time to go snuggle with my cat. tobey always makes everything better.

lipstick-feminists:

submission from bambinoseyes-

Would really appreciate it if you posted this for your followers to see:

I am a strong feminist enslaved by a sexualised patriarchal society. I am enslaved by the ideals I have been indoctrinated with. Whilst I consciously reject them, I carry their weight…

(via hoaxzine)

somethingaboutmyself:

Of course the Spanish version is a lot more powerful, but no one would read this poem unless I posted it in English. So here goes.

Silly, you men- so very adept

at wrongly faulting womankind,

not seeing you’re alone to blame

for faults you plant in woman’s mind.

After you’ve won by urgent…

woo, sor juana on tumblr! i wrote my thesis about her! rock on.